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MessaggioInviato: Lun Set 09, 2013 9:29 am    Oggetto: Tabù di moglie Rispondi citando

Salam aleikum Fratelli e Sorelle, torniamo a scrivere per chiedere una cosa richiestami da una sorella appena sposata (Mashallah).
Mi ha chiesto di chiedere se il rapporto orale è considerato Halal o Haram.
Premetto che sono una coppia molto Religiosi e nonostante il marito le abbia fatto capire questa cosa, lei (la sorella), la ritiene Haram.
Scusate per l'argomento.... forse un pò piccante.... ma questi ragazzi vogliono rimanere nell'Halal pur avendo il rapporto il più completo possibile.
Grazie per le risposte che arriveranno.
PS Solo risposte che si è certi di dare, non per sentito dire o la mia amica/o ha dettro che..... Solo Sharià, grazie
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MessaggioInviato: Lun Set 09, 2013 1:25 pm    Oggetto: Rispondi citando

wa aleykum assalam wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh
Ti incollo una fatwa in merito (Madhhab Hanafi)
Aspetta però anche la risposta di altri fratelli più preparati di me sull'argomento.

Oral sex is not permitted in terms of Shari'ah. It does not behove a Muslim to use for such a filthy purpose the same mouth that he/she uses for the tilaawat of the Qur'aan, Zikrullah, Durood, etc. It is stated in Fataawa Aalamgiriyah:-

“The act of a man inserting his reproductive organ into his wife's mouth is considered to be highly reprehensible.” (Fataawa Aalamgiriyah vol.5 pg.372).

Furthermore, many a times’ “mazhi” (a thin discharge) is emitted from the penis when a person becomes aroused. A type of wetness also comes out of the woman's vagina. Both of these are impure. This impurity enters the mouth while having oral sex. This would hence be another reason for it not being permitted. In fact, such acts (whereby no distinction remains between pure and impure) are an insult to the honour and dignity of human kind and are more akin to the acts of lowly animals.

Sex is an act that has taken place from the time of Hadhrat Aadam alaihis salaam and the different sexual positions and techniques prevalent in the world have not necessarily been introduced by the kuffaar. In fact, even the Qur’aan gives leeway for the various sexual positions; as stated in Surah Baqarah: “Your woman are your tilth, therefore approach them from whichever position you wish.” (2:222). And, if for argument’s sake, the various sexual techniques had been introduced by the kuffaar, that does not imply that because Islâm accommodates these techniques, it would also accommodate oral sex! The permissibility of certain acts prevalent in the world can only be accommodated if they are not symbolic characteristics peculiar to the kuffaar and/or do not violate and contradict the injunctions of Shari’ah. Therefore, if, for reasons of expedience and benefit, some acts initiated by the kuffaar are permitted in Shari’ah, that does not give blanket permissibility of allowing all the habits and acts of the kuffaar. No sensible, level-headed Muslim will dare to say for instance, that masturbation, sex during Haidh, anal sex and homosexuality should be allowed in Islâm simply because they are acceptable by the kuffaar! That is because he knows that these despicable acts have been condemned in Islâm!

Oral sex will thus be condemned in Islâm because it involves taking the mouth close to the place where it is not meant to go, i.e. to the filth of vaginal discharge and seminal emission of the penis. It is the sexual organs that should be mutually used by a married couple for purposes of sexual gratification and not parts of the body such as the tongue and mouth that enjoy the noble prestige of hymning the praises of Allah Ta’aala, reciting the Qur’aan, etc.

E Allah SWT sa meglio.
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MessaggioInviato: Lun Set 09, 2013 3:44 pm    Oggetto: Rispondi citando

xxxxx ha scritto:
wa aleykum assalam wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh
Ti incollo una fatwa in merito (Madhhab Hanafi)
Aspetta però anche la risposta di altri fratelli più preparati di me sull'argomento.

Oral sex is not permitted in terms of Shari'ah. It does not behove a Muslim to use for such a filthy purpose the same mouth that he/she uses for the tilaawat of the Qur'aan, Zikrullah, Durood, etc. It is stated in Fataawa Aalamgiriyah:-

“The act of a man inserting his reproductive organ into his wife's mouth is considered to be highly reprehensible.” (Fataawa Aalamgiriyah vol.5 pg.372).

Furthermore, many a times’ “mazhi” (a thin discharge) is emitted from the penis when a person becomes aroused. A type of wetness also comes out of the woman's vagina. Both of these are impure. This impurity enters the mouth while having oral sex. This would hence be another reason for it not being permitted. In fact, such acts (whereby no distinction remains between pure and impure) are an insult to the honour and dignity of human kind and are more akin to the acts of lowly animals.

Sex is an act that has taken place from the time of Hadhrat Aadam alaihis salaam and the different sexual positions and techniques prevalent in the world have not necessarily been introduced by the kuffaar. In fact, even the Qur’aan gives leeway for the various sexual positions; as stated in Surah Baqarah: “Your woman are your tilth, therefore approach them from whichever position you wish.” (2:222). And, if for argument’s sake, the various sexual techniques had been introduced by the kuffaar, that does not imply that because Islâm accommodates these techniques, it would also accommodate oral sex! The permissibility of certain acts prevalent in the world can only be accommodated if they are not symbolic characteristics peculiar to the kuffaar and/or do not violate and contradict the injunctions of Shari’ah. Therefore, if, for reasons of expedience and benefit, some acts initiated by the kuffaar are permitted in Shari’ah, that does not give blanket permissibility of allowing all the habits and acts of the kuffaar. No sensible, level-headed Muslim will dare to say for instance, that masturbation, sex during Haidh, anal sex and homosexuality should be allowed in Islâm simply because they are acceptable by the kuffaar! That is because he knows that these despicable acts have been condemned in Islâm!

Oral sex will thus be condemned in Islâm because it involves taking the mouth close to the place where it is not meant to go, i.e. to the filth of vaginal discharge and seminal emission of the penis. It is the sexual organs that should be mutually used by a married couple for purposes of sexual gratification and not parts of the body such as the tongue and mouth that enjoy the noble prestige of hymning the praises of Allah Ta’aala, reciting the Qur’aan, etc.

E Allah SWT sa meglio.


Grazie molte fratello/sorella.
Intanto riferisco questa cosa poi Insh'Allah se arrivano altre risposte riferirò.
Grazie ancora
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MessaggioInviato: Mar Set 10, 2013 7:23 am    Oggetto: Rispondi citando

Wa alaykom salam wa rahmatulLahi wa barakatuh

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MessaggioInviato: Mer Set 11, 2013 1:20 am    Oggetto: Rispondi citando

Assalamu Alaikum riposto la fatwa per chi segue il madhhab Shafi'i, con citazione del Madhhab Hanafi e Hanbali. Sai il fratello e sorella che madhhab seguono?


Question:
Is oral sex permissible?

Answer:

Wa alaykum salam wa rahmatuLlahi wa barakatuHu,

In Fath al-Mu’in along with its commentary I’anat al-Talibin (vol. 3, pg. 386), a husband giving his wife oral sex is stated to be permissible. The text of Fath al-Mu’in is:

يجوز للزوج كل تمتع منها بما سوى حلقة دبرها ولو بمص بظرها اه


The text of I’anah is:

ولو كان التمتع بمص بظرها فإنه جائز

In Wasit (vol. 5, pg. 183) Imam Ghazzali mentioned:

فنقول يحل للرجل جميع فنون الاستمتاع ولا يستثنى عنه إلخ

In Rawdah (vol. 7, pg. 204) Imam Nawawi mentioned:

له جميع أنواع الاستمتاع إلا النظر إلى الفرج ففيه خلاف سبق في حكم النظر وإلا الإتيان في الدبر فإنه حرام ويجوز التلذذ بما بين الإليتين والإيلاج في القبل من جهة الدبر اه

The itlaq of Nawawi and Ghazzali’s statements indicates to oral sex being permissible.

A view of permissibility is also related in the Hanbali School with the added detail that it is disliked after intercourse, like what Mardawi mentions in his Insaf (vol. 20, pg. 61):

يجوز تقبيل فرج المرأة قبل الجماع ويكره بعده اه

In the Hanafi School we have found two views: 1) makruh and 2) not makruh, as mentioned in al-Fatawa al-Hindiyyah (vol. 5, pg. 453); and it is specific to wife giving husband. The text is:

في النوازل إذا أدخل الرجل ذكره في فم امرأته قد قيل يكره وقد قيل بخلافه كذا في الذخيرة اه

In conclusion, in our School oral sex is permissible.

And Allah knows best.

Shafiifiqh.com Fatwa Dept
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